HOSPITALITY IS MAKING YOUR GUESTS FEEL AT HOME, EVEN IF YOU WISH THEY WERE. Author Unknown

 At holiday season many of us open our homes to relatives and other loved-ones.  This can often mean having overnight guests.  While we all do it with the anticipation of creating fun times and warm memories - how can we make it a reality?  How does a gracious hostess make her home feel welcoming to her guests? 

While this topic could cover a number of things, let's just focus on the sleeping arrangements for now.   I am sure few of us have a guest room the size of this - but I love this picture (actually of the White House master bedroom during President Kennedy's term - Jackie designed it (1962)):


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 But no worry.  Remember a little space breeds good visits.  I actually think a guest room should be cozy, warm and comfortable:


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Here are some suggestions:

• prepare sleeping quarters with luxurious high-thread count sheets, an extra warm blanket to snuggle in if the bedding isn't enough, an amply supply of pillows, sufficient lighting for bedtime reading (along with a few books and magazines), a working clock, hangers and space in a closet and some other area for their belongings, a water carafe and glasses in the room, and a vase of flowers or gesture with an accompanying welcome note that says "we are so glad you are here".   Tip: sleeping one night in your guest room will enlighten you on what else would make their stay even better.
• let your children know the "guest area" is off limits - respect privacy.
• prepare bathroom facilities (first with a good scrubbing) then with more than enough fluffy towels/hand towels/face clothes, and nice (and new) toiletries (including new toothpaste/toothbrush/razor) for your guest's use.  I also include a hairdryer for the ladies. 
• stock the kitchen with a few extra treats - and let your guests know where everything is and that they are free to "help themselves".
• inform your guests of house rules that are important to you - do you allow shoes inside?  Do you want people in the living room or is the family room the preferred gathering place?  Most guests will respect your wishes.
• provide a list of phone numbers (your cell, cab service, local pharmacy, etc), along with maps and local areas of interest (museums, restaurants, etc) so they can enjoy your town, especially if you have to work during the day.  
• set aside special time to enjoy your guests! 

Do you have other suggestions to make house guests feel welcome?