PRESENTS, GIFTS, AND HOLIDAY CHEER



Source: Martha Stewart

The holidays are right around the corner and that means holiday shopping is underway.  In the hustle and bustle of the holiday season the true meaning behind gift-giving can sometimes be lost.  

Giving a gift is intended to show someone you care and there is great delight in giving what you know is the right gift for the right person.  I hope we all know that feeling - it is a testament to the saying "in giving we receive."  But it isn't easy to do.  Take time throughout the year to learn what the person covets, remembering that the more expensive the gift doesn't automatically make it better.  We find that in an increasingly materialistic world the best gifts usually include one's time and the creation of memories that long outlast the life of many material objects.

But giving a nice bauble or some other gift is marvelous too!  Put effort into the gift's presentation - a beautifully wrapped package with a bright bow or pretty ribbon along with a joyful personal note always seem to make one smile a bit more than the fail-safe and convenient gift bag.  Check out Martha Stewart for some tips on gift-wrapping.

For the recipient who opens up the gift and is disappointed - never show it.  Your duty is to graciously receive a gift - put on a smile, act delighted and always say "thank you."  To do otherwise is plain rude.  Be marvelously well-mannered and promptly pen a proper thank you note.  More on that later....